Bell Audi - Service Center

This is my 3rd Audi I have owned. I have done searches in variety of websites regarding Bell Audi, in Rahway, NJ for service queries. I must say 95% of all reviews have been less then stellar. & I am on in variety of websites regarding Bell Audi, in Rahway, NJ for service queries. I must say 95% of all reviews have been less then stellar. & I am one of those 95%. About a month and a 1/2 ago my car was struck in front end. The body work (Ultimate Collision in Edison, NJ) did everything right except they had to send the car to BELL AUDI because after headlight assembly is installed ('03 Xenon) the SELF ADJUST message on dashboard needs to get reset. They some how manually jammed a reset thru to make the SELF-ADJUST message to go away (Pg 182 ICON in owners manual) Meanwhile the XENON shine off of this lamp is completly faded and faces completelty to the bottom nothing close to my stock light on right side. I face the car against my garage and right side is very SHARP. Whereas the left light is blurry. I brought the car back to Ultimate since they were the ones who ultimately worked on my car. They sent the car back out to Audi. Bell checked the bulb said it's okay. Then after about a week the xenon light goes out completely and another error comes on dash - "Left light has dipped LOW". So they replace the xenon again. But now the light is stuck a LOW point and does not SELF ADJUST yet again. Mind you ULTIMATE collision purchased a brand new headlamp assembly and a xenon bulb. After another week the car still is in the shop and got a call yesterday that "MAYBE" the self-adjuster needs to be replaced - approx. $250. along with a "CONTROL MODULE?" - approx. $575 this pice signals a message to headlamp and since it's not doing that the LENS is not adjusting. This is all guessing on their part. They are not CONFIDENT that this is indeed truly the issue. It's just annoying that they do this for a living and can't figure issues out and basically neglect cars which are sitting in their parking lots for days maybe weeks. For example, I turned my car in on thursday AM gave them benefit of doubt maybe they are busy so they will work on it Friday. Nothing. Get a call from them on tuesday and they metion they can't figure things out all they have done is try to reset the error since it didn't work more things need to be done. When who knows! It's just a sickening feeling to have an awesome car and be handled or lack there of by pansys like this. I spoke with their driver who dropped me off home and he mentioned out of 15 technicans 10 of them are rookies and don't have a clue what they are doing. I just want my car back the way it was before! is that too much to ask. Any help/comments on this issue would help a TON. Thanks! More